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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 01:34:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&gt;&gt;&gt;Myth: Whole Life Insurance is a great idea, because I can invest my money at the same time.
Fact:  The truth is that the return on investments in a whole life policy are horrible and it is better to put that money in a mutual fund. Also, there is not a guarantee that your beneficiaries will receive the savings upon your death. For more information about Whole Life Insurance go here.&lt;&lt;&lt;

Please, I have to respectfully disagree. Dave does offer some good advice for getting out of debt, though, his mantra &quot;debt is dumb&quot; is, well...dumb I think. Anyway, try telling that to any real estate investor, or anyone who has made millions in the bond market. 

The one MAJOR thing I disagree with Ramsey about is his whole convoluted take on life insurance. He almost says &quot;term insurance&quot; as though it were obvious. The problem is that math doesn&#039;t support his conclusions.

First off, I did a quick check on vanguard of various growth stock mutual funds and none of them had a long-term track record of producing anything near 10% net of all fees. That&#039;s key. Net of all fees, and Vanguard is cheap on their fees. I also checked with a friend who works with DFA and basically, my friend laughed. 

So, I&#039;m not sure if Dave is just looking at the 5 year and figures that you&#039;ll just shuffle around to the best funds every five years (if we could only foretell the future).

So, for example, if you had $100 to spend and bought $250,000 of term insurance for, say even $15 per month, and then invested the rest instead of just buying a good dividend paying whole life policy, your results would look something like this: 

Even if you could get 10% net of fees, your $85 per month would yield $113,720 or so after 25 years. Now, here&#039;s where I don&#039;t think Ramsey is being honest with his numbers.

When he tells you whole life has terrible returns, and then he turns to BTID, he conveniently forgets to add in the cost of the term insurance when figuring out the return on investment. So right there, you&#039;re not comparing apples to apples. By the way, your net effective yield is only 5.47% after those 25 years on Ramsey&#039;s investment suggestion and that&#039;s before taxes.

If you have a decent par whole life, do you think your IRR can be between 5% and 6% after 25 years on that whole life? As long as you are buying from an old mutual company, then yes it can.

I think Ramsey gets lost in the numbers either not knowing or not telling his followers that time works against your rate of return on an investment if you have to do this on a monthly basis for 20, 30, or 40 years, but in an insurance policy, your contract is front loaded and then in the later years your cash value swells so you actually end up with a nice IRR and a good return. This is provided you are getting a contract that&#039;s designed for cash value growth. 

If you need insurance, you can still blend it with convertible term, but, I guess it depends on what you need the insurance for.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&gt;&gt;&gt;Myth: Whole Life Insurance is a great idea, because I can invest my money at the same time.<br />
Fact:  The truth is that the return on investments in a whole life policy are horrible and it is better to put that money in a mutual fund. Also, there is not a guarantee that your beneficiaries will receive the savings upon your death. For more information about Whole Life Insurance go here.&lt;&lt;&lt;</p>
<p>Please, I have to respectfully disagree. Dave does offer some good advice for getting out of debt, though, his mantra &#8220;debt is dumb&#8221; is, well&#8230;dumb I think. Anyway, try telling that to any real estate investor, or anyone who has made millions in the bond market. </p>
<p>The one MAJOR thing I disagree with Ramsey about is his whole convoluted take on life insurance. He almost says &#8220;term insurance&#8221; as though it were obvious. The problem is that math doesn&#8217;t support his conclusions.</p>
<p>First off, I did a quick check on vanguard of various growth stock mutual funds and none of them had a long-term track record of producing anything near 10% net of all fees. That&#8217;s key. Net of all fees, and Vanguard is cheap on their fees. I also checked with a friend who works with DFA and basically, my friend laughed. </p>
<p>So, I&#8217;m not sure if Dave is just looking at the 5 year and figures that you&#8217;ll just shuffle around to the best funds every five years (if we could only foretell the future).</p>
<p>So, for example, if you had $100 to spend and bought $250,000 of term insurance for, say even $15 per month, and then invested the rest instead of just buying a good dividend paying whole life policy, your results would look something like this: </p>
<p>Even if you could get 10% net of fees, your $85 per month would yield $113,720 or so after 25 years. Now, here&#8217;s where I don&#8217;t think Ramsey is being honest with his numbers.</p>
<p>When he tells you whole life has terrible returns, and then he turns to BTID, he conveniently forgets to add in the cost of the term insurance when figuring out the return on investment. So right there, you&#8217;re not comparing apples to apples. By the way, your net effective yield is only 5.47% after those 25 years on Ramsey&#8217;s investment suggestion and that&#8217;s before taxes.</p>
<p>If you have a decent par whole life, do you think your IRR can be between 5% and 6% after 25 years on that whole life? As long as you are buying from an old mutual company, then yes it can.</p>
<p>I think Ramsey gets lost in the numbers either not knowing or not telling his followers that time works against your rate of return on an investment if you have to do this on a monthly basis for 20, 30, or 40 years, but in an insurance policy, your contract is front loaded and then in the later years your cash value swells so you actually end up with a nice IRR and a good return. This is provided you are getting a contract that&#8217;s designed for cash value growth. </p>
<p>If you need insurance, you can still blend it with convertible term, but, I guess it depends on what you need the insurance for.</p>
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		<title>By: Parents &#38; Family &#124; Walnut Creek California &#124; Kirsten Howe &#124; Kirsten Howe's Web Blog</title>
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		<dc:creator>Parents &#38; Family &#124; Walnut Creek California &#124; Kirsten Howe &#124; Kirsten Howe's Web Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 21:36:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] blog post from The Mom Crowd entitled 7 Ways To Show Your Family You Love Them expresses the sentiment pretty perfectly in the opening paragraph, “We all show our family that [...]</description>
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		<title>By: yahoo</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 06:10:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: McKenna</title>
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		<dc:creator>McKenna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 03:08:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Something else to consider if you have a child with special needs, you should create a &quot;special needs trust&quot; for them.  It is a special trust that will protect the benefits they are entitled for as adults with special needs and this can dramatically affect their housing options, medical insurance, and disability benefits.  I also just learned from a lawyer friend that our bank accounts and life insurance policies should be set to go to &quot;our estate.&quot; Our primary beneficiaries are each other, and our secondary beneficiaries are our children.  Apparently, that would interfere with the special needs trust we have set up for our daughter, so we switched the secondary beneficiaries as &quot;our estate&quot; and from there, our trust will distribute it as we&#039;ve directed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something else to consider if you have a child with special needs, you should create a &#8220;special needs trust&#8221; for them.  It is a special trust that will protect the benefits they are entitled for as adults with special needs and this can dramatically affect their housing options, medical insurance, and disability benefits.  I also just learned from a lawyer friend that our bank accounts and life insurance policies should be set to go to &#8220;our estate.&#8221; Our primary beneficiaries are each other, and our secondary beneficiaries are our children.  Apparently, that would interfere with the special needs trust we have set up for our daughter, so we switched the secondary beneficiaries as &#8220;our estate&#8221; and from there, our trust will distribute it as we&#8217;ve directed.</p>
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		<title>By: Barb</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2008 16:57:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh yeah, and I also agree with Heidi on getting Powers of Attorney - both the conventional kind and the medical kind.  A HIPPA release for your family to access your medical records is also a good idea.  And make any organ donation desires known to relevant family members and medical personnel - through a conversation and memorialized in writing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh yeah, and I also agree with Heidi on getting Powers of Attorney &#8211; both the conventional kind and the medical kind.  A HIPPA release for your family to access your medical records is also a good idea.  And make any organ donation desires known to relevant family members and medical personnel &#8211; through a conversation and memorialized in writing.</p>
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